Why Are Matchmaker Ministers Needed?

Are you interested in what the matchmaker minister program is all about? Do you wonder whether you should spend time training and becoming a matchmaker minister? You may ask, “Why are matchmaker ministers needed?” 

Christian singles are lonely too and looking for their helpmate.

According to the Bible, after God created Adam, He gave him the work of having dominion over the earth. Adam was working on naming the male and female animals. While everything in this paradise was good, Adam was lonely. God noticed.

Genesis 2:18   The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

Many identify with being lonely and want to marry a suitable marriage partner to have and to hold, to love until death parts them.

Matchmaking ministers own this narrative and are called to help each Christian singles find their life partner.

Finding a suitable Christian partner builds the Kingdom of God

Healthy Christianity and a healthy church are populated with healthy Christian marriages. Healthy marriages are more satisfying for sexual expression. IMom reported that polls say that Sex in Marriage is More Fulfilling. Healthy marriages bear children who are ordinarily raised in healthy homes. Having more children always helps grow Christianity.

Matchmaker ministers are trained to help search for marriage candidates that hold Christian values and Christian Kingdom values. The Apostle Paul was clear,

2 Corinthians 6:14   Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

Matchmaker Ministers will help Christian Singles make better choices.

One of the most elite matchmaking agencies in the world is Berkley International. Berkley International’s theme is “A Shared Life is A Better Life.” They help people willing to pay large fees to find their match. They are like a high-end employment search firm. Why are they so successful? They help their client make better choices because trained matchmakers are included in the process and journey. See Why you Should Use a Matchmaker.

Matchmaker Ministers will come alongside you. Matchmaker ministers are at Christian Leaders Institute to receive extensive Biblical training for matchmaking roles. This training is in well-rounded programs that include clergy recognition with the Christian Leaders Alliance. These ministers will help you make better choices. Better choices in the courtship process ordinarily translate to a more fulfilling Christian marriage.

Matchmaker Ministers will help keep addictions to online tools lower.

Money Watch reported in 2019 that young people spend a large amount of time on dating sites. As many as 1 in 6 were seriously addicted.

And millennials (ages 18 to 30 in this case) spend 20 hours a week on dating apps, according to dating service Badoo.com, with men spending an average of 85 minutes a day on dating apps, while women swipe left or right for an average of 79 minutes daily.

It makes sense that it will take time priorities when you are ready to find your life’s partner. But with a matchmaker minister, a process is put in place that maximizes time and effort. It will keep people away from preoccupations with hunting and the endorphins that the hunting fantasy release.

Matchmaker Ministers will provide much-needed confidential support to people making one of the most important decisions of their lives.

One of the most important reasons why matchmaker ministers are needed is that committing to a marriage partner is a huge risk! And lonely singles will take that risk because people are not designed to be alone.

In almost every other area in life, we will address risk with the help of trained people. While some people may buy a house by owner, most would rather work with a real estate agent trained and certified to guide you successfully through this important process.

When people invest their own money, most they employ financial consultants to help manage their risk.

The cost of marrying an unsuitable spouse is high:

  • Depression
  • Broken homes that include children
  • Loss of self-confidence
  • Financial ruin
  • Other costs

Why not get a set of confidential eyes to help you on the journey. You want to get it right the first time. “An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.” Remember  Ecclesiastes 4:9,  “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their work:”

Divorced Christian couples feel they fail God.

Why are matchmaker ministers needed? Matchmaker ministers are needed because we want Christians to thrive in their marriages. One crucial foundation is marrying a keeper who aligns with you in Christ and many other complementary ways.

When couples divorce, they feel like they failed God. This failure often leads to them leaving Christianity. Sometimes for a time, something for a lifetime. Often after their divorce and failure, they even leave their Christian values and church attendance.

Matchmaker ministers will become more and more essential as our society heads for more chaos.

Marriage Matching Ministers are not marriage arrangers. They are there to help you on the journey. They will provide confidential ministry coaching and support to make the process of finding a suitable spouse better.